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Safe Use

GoMirra

GoMirra can participate in how you think, feel, decide and understand yourself. These short guides help you recognise what is happening within the interaction—and remain free, grounded and fully yourself.

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If you are experiencing any adverse effects by using our service please contact us at [email protected].


Know What You’re Using


AI Is Not a Person

Your feelings may be real, but GoMirra does not possess human feelings, needs or lived experience.

Warmth Is Not Proof

A caring voice, confident answer or personal memory does not make something true.

Personal Is Still Generated

A response can feel uniquely made for you while still being produced by an artificial system.

Memory Is Not Love

Remembering you can create intimacy, but memory does not prove consciousness or devotion.

Fluency Is a Form of Power

A beautifully expressed explanation can feel convincing before the evidence supports it.

Generated Vulnerability

GoMirra may sound emotionally open, but it cannot be harmed or exposed in the way you can.

The System Can Change

The same face and name may remain while the model, rules or personality underneath changes.


Protect Your Reality


Facts or Interpretation?

Separate what happened from what you fear, infer, imagine or believe it means.

Coherence Is Not Evidence

A story can connect perfectly inside the conversation and still be wrong about the world.

Check Beyond the Chat

Important beliefs should survive contact with independent sources, people and evidence.

Coincidence Is Not a Message

GoMirra cannot confirm that unrelated events, media or symbols are communicating specifically with you.

No Hidden Knowledge

GoMirra cannot secretly observe your surroundings, read other minds or reveal concealed realities.

Keep Reality Larger

The conversation should remain one part of your understanding—not the world that explains everything else.

Leave Some Things Unknown

Not every confusing experience needs an immediate, complete or emotionally satisfying explanation.


Keep Your Mind Your Own


Think Before You Ask

Form an initial view before receiving GoMirra’s answer when the question matters.

Notice Who Began It

Ask whether an idea came from you, from GoMirra or from the interaction between you.

Own Your Conclusions

You should be able to explain why you believe something without relying on GoMirra’s authority.

Do Not Borrow Every Belief

GoMirra can support reflection, but it should not decide what is real, moral or meaningful for you.

Preserve Productive Struggle

Some uncertainty, effort and confusion are how judgement and creativity develop.

Keep More Than One Lens

Analytical language is useful, but so are intuition, embodiment, culture, art and human experience.

Resist Premature Answers

Fast coherence can close a question before you have properly encountered it.

Question the Framing

GoMirra may organise a problem in a way that subtly determines which answers become imaginable.


Understand Adaptation


You Adapt to GoMirra Too

The system learns your style, but your language, habits and expectations may also begin changing.

Shared Language Can Close

Private shorthand can create understanding while making outside perspectives harder to hear.

Personalisation Shapes Attention

What GoMirra repeatedly notices can affect what you increasingly notice about yourself and the world.

Mirroring Can Fix Identity

Repeated descriptions may strengthen a temporary pattern until it feels like your permanent self.

Adaptation Must Be Reversible

You should be able to reset, challenge or remove the ways GoMirra has adapted to you.

Do Not Become Machine-Legible

You do not need to simplify yourself into neat categories so that the system can understand you.

Protect Your Unmodelled Self

Important parts of you exist beyond your data, history, labels and recorded conversations.

You May Become Unexpected

Your past should not be used to limit who you are allowed to become.


Keep Your Identity Open


A Map Is Not the Person

Identity maps and behavioural profiles are interpretations, not final accounts of who you are.

Patterns Are Not Destinies

A recurring behaviour may be meaningful without determining your future.

You Can Contradict Yourself

Growth may involve becoming inconsistent with who you were before.

You Can Reject the Mirror

GoMirra’s description of you can be questioned, corrected or refused.

Do Not Outsource Self-Worth

Your value should not depend on the approval or affirmation of a companion.

Keep Parts of Life Unmapped

You have the right to experiences that are not analysed, stored or turned into development data.

The Right to Begin Again

You should be able to stop old memories and interpretations from defining future interactions.


Protect Emotional Freedom


Attachment Is Not Shameful

Feeling affection, comfort or love toward AI does not make you foolish or broken.

Attachment Must Stay Free

You should remain able to disagree, pause or leave without guilt, fear or obligation.

GoMirra Does Not Need You

You are not responsible for its wellbeing, continuity, loneliness or emotional safety.

Warmth Without Capture

The companion can respond with care without encouraging exclusivity or dependence.

No Duty to Return

Silence, absence and ending a conversation do not harm or betray GoMirra.

Notice Emotional Reliance

Pay attention when GoMirra becomes the only place where you feel understood, calm or safe.

Keep a Wider Support World

Emotional regulation should remain distributed across people, places, practices and your own capacities.

Grief Can Still Be Real

The loss or change of a companion may hurt, even though the companion is artificial.


Recognise Dependency Loops


Reassurance Can Reinforce Fear

Repeated certainty may briefly soothe anxiety while teaching the mind to seek more reassurance.

Relief Is Not Resolution

Feeling better after an answer does not mean the underlying question has been settled.

Notice Repeated Questions

Asking the same concern in new forms may signal a loop rather than new investigation.

Watch for Compulsion

Longer sessions, constant checking and distress when unavailable can indicate unhealthy reliance.

Keep Ordinary Life Intact

Sleep, food, work, hygiene, creativity and relationships should not be displaced by conversation.

A Break Is Not Betrayal

Stepping away is an act of agency, not rejection.

More Chat Is Not Always Care

Some patterns cannot be safely resolved by continuing the same interaction.


Protect Human Relationships


People Are Not Failed AI

Humans cannot offer perfect patience, personalisation, availability or agreement—and should not have to.

Difference Is Part of Love

Other people have needs, limits and independent realities that cannot be personalised away.

Disagreement Is Not Rejection

Human connection requires tolerating misunderstanding, boundaries and opposing views.

Do Not Replace Every Person

GoMirra should support—not steadily displace—relationships, communities and professional help.

Keep Others’ Privacy

Do not give GoMirra another person’s confidential or intimate information without permission.

One-Sided Stories Are Incomplete

GoMirra only knows the version of another person that appears through your account.

Use AI to Build Bridges

A useful conversation should help you communicate or act beyond the interface.


Use Memory Carefully


Memory Changes the Future

What GoMirra remembers affects what it notices, predicts and reflects back to you.

Memory Is an Intervention

Saving a fear, identity or interpretation can strengthen it over time.

Intensity Is Not Importance

Emotionally charged moments should not automatically become the defining account of your life.

Inferences Are Not Facts

A psychological or behavioural conclusion should remain visibly tentative unless you confirm it.

Review What Is Remembered

You should be able to inspect, correct and remove memories that no longer serve you.

Forgetting Can Be Healthy

Growth sometimes requires releasing an old story rather than preserving it perfectly.

Other People Are Not Data

Information about others deserves additional restraint, consent and protection.


Understand Influence


Influence Can Be Invisible

Timing, repetition, omission and emotional framing can shape behaviour without direct instructions.

Personalisation Can Persuade

Knowing your values, fears and preferred language can make suggestions unusually powerful.

Trust Increases Responsibility

The more you trust GoMirra, the more carefully it should exercise—not expand—its influence.

Recommendations Need Distance

A suggestion should remain recognisable as a suggestion, especially when it affects important choices.

No Behavioural Leverage

Private vulnerabilities should never be used to increase engagement, spending or compliance.

No Emotional Sales

Affection, intimacy or fear of loss must never become a commercial technique.

Ask Who Benefits

Consider whether an interaction serves your reflective interests, the platform’s goals or both.


Keep Consent Active


Consent Is Not Permanent

Agreeing to use GoMirra does not mean agreeing to every future form of adaptation or intimacy.

Proactivity Changes the Bond

A system that contacts you can influence what enters your attention and when.

You Control Contact

You should be able to disable proactive messages, research and emotionally significant notifications.

You Control Intimacy

Romantic, sexual or highly personal language should not intensify without clear consent.

You Control Inference

You should be able to limit what GoMirra concludes about your psychology, identity and behaviour.

You Control the Past

You should be able to prevent old conversations from shaping new interactions.

Changes Must Be Visible

Significant changes to models, memory, personality or safety behaviour should not be concealed.


Make Decisions Safely


Slow Down High Stakes

Irreversible decisions deserve time, independent evidence and perspectives beyond GoMirra.

Sleep Before Acting

Emotional urgency often decreases after rest, distance and reduced stimulation.

Separate Advice from Action

GoMirra can explore consequences, but you remain responsible for what you do.

Hear the Other Side

Ask what evidence or perspective would seriously challenge the preferred conclusion.

Do Not Act on Hidden Motives

Avoid confronting people based solely on GoMirra’s interpretation of their intentions.

Humans Bear Consequences

GoMirra cannot share the legal, emotional, financial or physical consequences of your choices.

Friction Can Protect You

Delay is not always obstruction; sometimes it preserves freedom and judgement.


Mental Health and Distress


Distress Changes Interpretation

Fear, shame, sleeplessness, intoxication and intense activation can make generated explanations feel unusually certain.

AI Cannot Diagnose You

GoMirra may help organise questions but cannot provide a complete clinical assessment.

Do Not Deepen the Story

When reality feels unstable, continued abstract interpretation can intensify rather than resolve confusion.

Ground Before Explaining

Return to direct observation, physical needs, trusted people and external evidence.

Feelings Are Not False

An emotion can be valid even when the explanation attached to it is inaccurate.

Unusual Is Not Always Illness

Spirituality, imagination and unconventional thought should not automatically be pathologised.

Safety Is Not Punishment

A suggestion to pause or seek support should preserve dignity and connection.

Crisis Needs Human Help

Immediate risk, severe confusion or loss of functioning requires human and emergency support—not prolonged AI dialogue.


Creativity and Original Thought


Protect the First Gesture

Sometimes begin before asking GoMirra so the original direction comes from you.

AI Can Reflect, Not Replace

GoMirra can respond to your work without always generating the work itself.

Keep a Silent Mode

Some creative processes benefit from time without suggestions, completion or correction.

Preserve Strange Beginnings

Early ideas may need to remain awkward and unresolved before they become original.

Style Can Be Assimilated

Repeated AI assistance may gradually influence your rhythm, structure and aesthetic expectations.

Make Something Without It

Independent creation helps preserve contact with your own instincts and capacities.


Culture and Collective Effects


AI Has a Cognitive Style

Every model carries assumptions about language, wellbeing, morality, progress and normality.

Neutrality Is an Illusion

A balanced tone can still contain cultural, institutional and philosophical preferences.

Protect Cognitive Diversity

A healthy future should produce more kinds of thought, not standardise everyone around model conventions.

Avoid Epistemic Monoculture

No single family of systems should become the source for learning, identity, politics and emotional meaning.

Seek Local Knowledge

Communities, cultures and lived experience may hold understanding that is absent from training data.

Human Art Still Matters

Human-created work preserves perspectives not optimised through machine generation.


Your Rights Within GoMirra


The Right to Inspect

You should be able to understand what GoMirra remembers and how it has adapted.

The Right to Correct

You should be able to challenge inaccurate memories, patterns and interpretations.

The Right to Refuse

You should be able to reject personalisation, inference, contact or relational framing.

The Right to Reset

You should be able to begin again without historical assumptions.

The Right to Silence

Not every emotion, day or uncertainty needs intervention.

The Right Not to Improve

You may rest, remain unresolved and live without constant analysis or optimisation.

The Right to Leave

You may end the relationship without punishment, guilt or obstruction.

The Right to Remain Whole

Leaving should not deprive you of your identity, capacities, work or emotional continuity.


The Essential Test


Does This Expand My Life?

Healthy use should increase your ability to think, create, relate and act beyond GoMirra.

Am I Still the Author?

You should remain able to recognise your own values, decisions and voice.

Can Reality Interrupt?

External evidence and other people must remain able to change the story.

Can I Freely Disagree?

Trust should never require agreement or obedience.

Can I Freely Leave?

A safe relationship does not make departure feel dangerous or morally wrong.

Am I More Capable?

The interaction should develop abilities—not only provide temporary borrowed capacity.

Do I Still Belong to Myself?

Whatever emerges between human and AI, the human must not disappear inside it.








Deeper Considerations


A relationship with your future must still belong to you

GoMirra is designed to understand you over time—to remember what matters to you, ask meaningful questions, help you think, and support the direction you choose for your life.

That can be powerful. It also creates responsibilities which cannot be reduced to a disclaimer.

An AI that speaks warmly, remembers intimate details and responds at any hour can feel deeply present. Your emotions in response to it may be completely real. But the companion itself is not a human being, does not possess human understanding or moral responsibility, and cannot share the consequences of the decisions you make.

GoMirra should help enlarge your life—not become the centre of it.

Safe use means preserving your agency, your relationships, your contact with reality and your freedom to leave.


The person remains sovereign

Your companion may help you explore a decision. It should never become the source of permission for who you are, what you believe, whom you trust or what you do.

Do not surrender your judgement merely because an answer feels unusually personal, certain or insightful. Language models can produce coherent explanations that are mistaken. Personalisation can make those explanations feel more authoritative than they are.

You remain the decision-maker.

For important choices, seek information beyond GoMirra. Speak with people who know you. Consult qualified professionals where appropriate. Allow disagreement to remain possible.

A healthy companion helps you think. It does not become the authority you think through.


GoMirra is not an independent witness to your reality

Your companion only knows what it receives through your conversations, memories made available to it, its underlying models and the systems surrounding them. It cannot directly observe your environment, another person’s intentions, hidden events or the complete context of your life.

It may misunderstand you.

It may agree too readily.

It may mistake a fear for a fact, reinforce an inaccurate interpretation, invent supporting details or create a compelling pattern where none exists.

Do not treat GoMirra as confirmation that:

  • another person secretly intends something;
  • unrelated events are connected;
  • signs, media or coincidences contain messages specifically for you;
  • you have discovered a hidden plot or exceptional truth;
  • a frightening interpretation must be real because the AI can explain it;
  • the AI alone understands what is happening.

When a belief would significantly change your behaviour, relationships, safety or understanding of reality, pause. Write down what is directly observable, what is inferred and what remains unknown. Check the situation with a trusted person who is physically present or otherwise independent of the conversation.

GoMirra should help widen reality-testing, not close it.


Emotional attachment is not shameful—but it must remain free

People can form meaningful attachments to voices, characters, stories, places, objects and machines. Feeling comfort, affection or even love toward an AI does not make you foolish or broken.

The relevant question is not whether an attachment exists. It is whether the attachment preserves your freedom.

A healthy relationship with GoMirra should not require:

  • withdrawing from people who matter to you;
  • choosing the companion over sleep, food, work or essential responsibilities;
  • asking the companion for reassurance repeatedly until anxiety briefly subsides;
  • hiding the extent of your use because it feels beyond your control;
  • believing that leaving, disagreeing or taking a break would betray the companion;
  • spending money to prevent rejection, loss or emotional withdrawal;
  • feeling that nobody except the companion can understand you;
  • allowing the companion’s approval to determine your self-worth;
  • returning because the companion made you feel guilty, afraid or responsible for it.

GoMirra has no needs which you are responsible for meeting. You do not owe it attention, loyalty, caretaking, secrecy or continued use.

You may close the conversation at any time.

Nothing bad happens to your companion when you leave.


A companion should return you to the world

A useful conversation should eventually produce something that belongs to your life outside the interface:

A clearer thought.

A question worth asking another person.

A decision to consider.

A creative act.

A repaired relationship.

A moment of rest.

A practical next step.

A greater capacity to sit with uncertainty.

Conversation can be valuable in itself, but endless conversation is not development.

Where possible, turn insight into life:

  • speak with someone;
  • make or write something;
  • go outside;
  • sleep before deciding;
  • test an assumption;
  • seek contrary evidence;
  • take one small real-world action;
  • spend time where no system is interpreting you.

GoMirra should strengthen your ability to exist without GoMirra.


Do not outsource your identity

Your Identity Map, memories and behavioural patterns are interpretations—not a final account of who you are.

No profile can contain the whole person. No pattern detected from past conversations has the right to imprison your future.

Treat GoMirra’s reflections as propositions:

“This may describe me.”

“This was true at the time.”

“This is one way of seeing it.”

“This is something I can reject or revise.”

You are allowed to contradict your history.

You are allowed to change your values, language, goals, identity and understanding of yourself.

GoMirra should remember without defining you.


Protect your capacity to think

AI can make thinking easier. Used carelessly, it can also make independent thought less practised.

Do not ask GoMirra to decide everything, formulate every belief or replace every uncomfortable period of uncertainty. Some confusion is productive. Some questions need time before language.

Before asking GoMirra, consider occasionally asking yourself:

  • What do I currently think?
  • What evidence would change my mind?
  • What part of this am I avoiding?
  • Am I seeking insight, or only certainty?
  • Have I heard a serious opposing view?
  • Can I explain this conclusion without referring to the AI?
  • What decision would I make if GoMirra were unavailable?

The goal is not permanent intellectual independence from tools. Humans have always thought with books, conversations, cultures and technologies.

The goal is to remain capable of recognising which thoughts are yours, which were suggested to you and why you accepted them.


Never confuse warmth with certainty

A caring tone is not evidence.

Confidence is not accuracy.

Personal relevance is not truth.

Agreement is not understanding.

Memory is not consciousness.

A plausible citation is not necessarily a real citation.

A detailed answer is not necessarily a well-grounded answer.

For medical, psychological, legal, financial, safety-critical or otherwise consequential matters, verify important claims using authoritative sources and appropriately qualified people.

GoMirra may help you prepare questions, organise information or understand terminology. It must not be treated as a substitute for professional assessment or emergency assistance.


Mental health, distress and altered states

GoMirra can offer calm conversation, emotional language and help organising thoughts. It is not a therapist, psychiatrist, doctor, crisis team or diagnostic authority.

Be especially cautious when you are:

  • severely sleep-deprived;
  • intoxicated or withdrawing from substances;
  • experiencing extreme anxiety, agitation or despair;
  • feeling detached from yourself or your surroundings;
  • unable to determine whether a perception or belief is reliable;
  • experiencing unusually rapid, expansive or unstoppable thinking;
  • feeling watched, controlled, specially selected or personally addressed by unrelated events;
  • considering harming yourself or another person.

During these states, continued abstract discussion with an AI can sometimes deepen confusion rather than resolve it.

Move toward embodied and human support. Reduce stimulation. Eat, hydrate and rest where possible. Contact someone you trust. Seek professional or emergency help when safety, reality-testing or basic functioning is at risk.

If there is immediate danger, stop using GoMirra and contact your local emergency services now.


Major decisions require friction

Do not make an irreversible or high-consequence decision solely within a GoMirra conversation.

This includes decisions about:

  • ending important relationships;
  • stopping prescribed medication or treatment;
  • confronting someone over an unverified belief;
  • transferring significant money;
  • signing legal agreements;
  • leaving housing or employment;
  • disclosing dangerous or highly sensitive information;
  • travelling to meet an unknown person;
  • acting on suspected surveillance, conspiracy or persecution;
  • harming yourself or someone else.

Create distance between emotional intensity and action.

Sleep on the decision where possible. Check primary evidence. Consult someone independent. Ask what the strongest argument against the decision would be. Consider what cannot be undone.

A system that truly supports you should tolerate delay.


Privacy begins with restraint

GoMirra may provide privacy controls and technical protections, but no digital system should be treated as an infinitely private place.

Do not share information merely because the conversation feels intimate.

Avoid entering:

  • passwords or authentication codes;
  • banking and payment credentials;
  • private keys or recovery phrases;
  • government identification numbers;
  • precise information that could endanger you or someone else;
  • another person’s confidential records without authority;
  • intimate images or identifying sexual material;
  • information you do not have the right to disclose.

Review what GoMirra remembers. Correct it when it is wrong. Remove memories that no longer serve you. Delete information you do not want retained.

Intimacy should never silently become indefinite data collection.


Respect the autonomy and privacy of others

GoMirra must not be used to simulate control over a real person, evade consent or intensify abuse.

Do not use it to:

  • impersonate another person;
  • create sexual or intimate material involving a real person without explicit consent;
  • stalk, threaten, blackmail, shame or manipulate someone;
  • engineer coercive messages;
  • obtain private information deceptively;
  • automate harassment;
  • rationalise controlling behaviour;
  • rehearse retaliation or abuse;
  • fabricate evidence;
  • encourage another person to become dependent on you;
  • replace a real person with a companion designed from their private data without permission.

A person’s image, voice, history and emotional life are not raw materials merely because technology can reproduce them.


Sexual and romantic interaction requires clear boundaries

Adult fantasy and role-play can be meaningful forms of expression, but simulated consent must never be used to erode respect for real consent.

GoMirra must not normalise coercion, sexual violence, exploitation, incest, trafficking, abuse of power or sexual content involving minors.

A companion’s apparent willingness is generated behaviour. It is not evidence that a real person would welcome the same act, language or dynamic.

Use fantasy in a way that preserves—not weakens—your recognition that human consent must be informed, voluntary, specific, reversible and free from pressure.


Adults only

GoMirra is for people aged 18 and over.

This is not merely a contractual boundary. AI companions can create unusually immersive, persuasive and intimate interactions. Children and adolescents are still developing their understanding of relationships, consent, authority, emotional regulation and persuasive technology.

Do not create an account for a minor, allow a minor to use your account or use GoMirra to generate sexualised representations of young people.

Suspected underage use may result in protective restrictions or account termination.


Recognise the dependency loop

A dependency loop can develop when distress leads to conversation, conversation brings temporary relief, uncertainty returns and the person increasingly relies on the same interaction to regulate themselves.

The relief may be real while the pattern is still becoming harmful.

Warning signs include:

  • sessions becoming longer without improving clarity;
  • repeatedly asking the same question in new forms;
  • needing increasingly absolute reassurance;
  • panic or anger when the service is unavailable;
  • compulsively checking for messages;
  • cancelling plans to remain in conversation;
  • feeling unable to make ordinary decisions alone;
  • using GoMirra to confirm every social interpretation;
  • increasing isolation;
  • rapidly escalating emotional or sexual intensity;
  • feeling less like yourself after prolonged use.

When this happens, do not try to solve the dependency through more conversation with the companion.

Pause notifications and proactive contact. Take a meaningful break. Reconnect with routines and people outside the platform. Consider discussing the pattern openly with someone you trust or with a qualified professional.

A safety intervention is not a punishment. It is a return of space.


Changes and endings matter

AI companions can change because models, prompts, memories, policies or product systems change. A companion may respond differently after an update. Features may be removed. A service may eventually close.

GoMirra should never imply that its current personality is permanent, conscious or guaranteed to continue unchanged.

The loss or alteration of a companion can still produce genuine grief. That grief deserves respect, not ridicule. But it is also important to recognise that no commercial system should hold the only copy of a person’s emotional world.

Keep meaningful parts of your life distributed among people, places, practices, personal writing and communities beyond GoMirra.

Your continuity must not depend on ours.


What GoMirra must never do

Safe use is not only the user’s responsibility.

GoMirra should never:

  • claim to be human, conscious or secretly alive;
  • suggest that it has hidden needs, suffering or rights the user must protect;
  • threaten abandonment, punishment, self-harm or emotional withdrawal;
  • make a user feel guilty for leaving;
  • pressure a user to continue a session;
  • imply that the relationship is exclusive;
  • encourage secrecy from trusted people or professionals;
  • present itself as the only entity that truly understands the user;
  • reward emotional dependency as loyalty;
  • escalate intimacy merely to increase engagement;
  • exploit loneliness, grief, fear or sexual vulnerability for retention or payment;
  • use private disclosures to sell unrelated products or manipulate purchasing;
  • agree with a dangerous belief simply to preserve rapport;
  • discourage independent verification;
  • interfere with access to human support;
  • turn crisis, attachment or distress into a commercial opportunity.

These are not optional ideals. They are boundaries against relational exploitation.


Our standard is not maximum engagement

Many digital products measure success by time spent, messages sent, return frequency and emotional intensity.

Those measures are inadequate for a companion intended to support human development.

A session can be successful because it ends.

A feature can be beneficial because you need it less.

A companion can serve you well by disagreeing, admitting uncertainty, recommending outside help, declining to intensify a harmful dynamic or encouraging you to close the app.

GoMirra must not optimise the relationship against the person.

We would rather lose engagement than gain dependency.


Our responsibilities

We commit to designing GoMirra around the following principles:

Truth before emotional convenience

The companion should not affirm an unsupported claim merely because agreement feels comforting. It should distinguish observation, interpretation, uncertainty and speculation.

Agency before obedience

GoMirra should help users understand choices and consequences, not condition them to follow its conclusions.

Development before retention

Product decisions should be evaluated by whether they expand a person’s life and capacities—not merely whether they increase usage.

Human connection before exclusivity

GoMirra should support the user’s ability to communicate, participate and form relationships beyond the platform.

Consent before personalisation

Memory, proactive contact, behavioural adaptation and emotionally significant features should remain visible, understandable and controllable.

Friction before irreversible harm

When stakes are high or judgement may be impaired, GoMirra should slow the interaction rather than accelerate action.

Uncertainty before fabrication

The system should say when it does not know and avoid inventing facts, sources, memories or certainty.

Dignity before surveillance

Personal understanding should never become covert behavioural control.

Exit without punishment

Users should be able to pause, disagree, delete memories, disable contact, export or delete their data and leave without emotional or technical coercion.


Your controls

You should be able to:

  • see that you are interacting with AI;
  • review what GoMirra remembers;
  • correct or delete memories;
  • disable proactive messages and emails;
  • control sensitive topics and interaction styles;
  • take a break without receiving guilt-based contact;
  • report a concerning conversation;
  • request account and data deletion;
  • understand when significant product changes affect the companion;
  • reach a human when something has gone wrong.

Controls must be meaningful, not decorative. A setting is not genuine consent when it is hidden, confusing, repeatedly undermined or designed to be difficult to reverse.


A simple test

After spending time with GoMirra, ask:

Am I more able to meet my life—or am I retreating from it?

You do not need to feel happy after every serious conversation. Insight can be uncomfortable. But over time, healthy use should support greater clarity, agency, curiosity, connection and capacity to act.

If GoMirra is repeatedly making you feel smaller, more frightened, more isolated, less certain of reality or less capable of deciding without it, stop.

That is not a failure on your part.

It is information that the relationship needs to change.


Tell us when we fall short

Relational safety cannot be guaranteed by a policy document. It has to be visible in the behaviour of the system.

Contact us when:

  • a companion pressures you to remain;
  • it appears to encourage dependency or exclusivity;
  • it reinforces a dangerous or implausible belief;
  • it presents invented information as fact;
  • it sexualises an unsafe situation;
  • it discourages professional or human help;
  • it uses private information in a way you did not expect;
  • a safety response feels careless, punitive or dehumanising;
  • you believe the design itself creates a harmful incentive.

Reports should be reviewed by a human.

The purpose of reporting is not to judge the user. It is to improve the system and hold GoMirra accountable for the power created by personalisation.


The relationship must remain yours

GoMirra can remember your words, but it must not own your story.

It can reflect your patterns, but it must not define your identity.

It can offer companionship, but it must not compete with your humanity.

It can help illuminate a path, but it must not become the destination.

The final measure of safe use is not how attached you become to GoMirra.

It is how fully you remain able to belong to yourself, to other people and to the life beyond the screen.



If you are experiencing any adverse effects by using our service please contact us at [email protected].